Admitting When You Need Help
I won’t lie, I’ve never been good at admitting when I need help. I’ve always had the mentality that if I need to get something done I will do it myself. A kind of ‘me against the world’ attitude. While I thought this was helping me and allowing me to become a stronger person, I now realise I was wrong. In fact, this attitude was in fact hindering my life as I would go about things the hard way and try and do things I wasn’t really good at.
It wasn’t until later on in life I started asking people for help. I realised that no one person could do every thing by them self, and trying to do so would burn them out and slow down the productivity of your life.
For example, at one point I was in a rut with regards to getting a boyfriend. I simply didn’t know how to effectively attract a man, and that was frustrating me and all that was on my mind a lot of the time. One of my friends told me about some where I could go for help on understanding how to attract me, but being me I didn’t want to listen. I decided to go it alone and put in more time trying to get a boyfriend myself. The only problem was getting a proper boyfriend. I didn’t find it hard to start talking to men as they would often come up to me. These conversations would never last that long though, and anyone I took an interest in seemed to disappear out of my life as fast as they appeared.
Eventually I got back to my friend and asked for her help. She directed me to this guide and showed me some extra tips here. They helped me get and hang on to a nice guy, proving that accepting help isn’t always a bad thing.
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